Sunday, May 29, 2011

Missing You Like Crazy

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Missing someone drives people to do different things. Sometimes they do something that they could benefit from while others do things that will make matters worse (if it already is bad). Either way, the actions one is going to take when he or she misses someone will bring about a great effect.

In relationships, it can be noted that people will say they miss someone even if they see each other everyday. Although many may refer to this as the worst kind of missing someone, I still think that missing someone you do not see everyday is much worse. Sure, missing someone you get to see everyday hurts but at least you can actually see them physically. Missing someone who is far from you is a whole new story.

These days, long distance relationships have now become a "common thing" most probably because of the existence of the internet. It's a good thing though, because now, even when you are miles away from your loved one you can still find ways to communicate with them. Plus, it is much more convenient. With just a click of a button, you can come virtually face to face with your loved ones. Now this is also reason enough why I can't accept the rationale people use when trying to justify that long distance relationships dpn't work put because there are many ways you can employ just to make it work. That is, if you will it.

People are so fond of making excuses that it gets confusing what their main reason really is. Excuses or not, there are long distance relationship advice that they could use to help them out. Give it a try and see how it goes. From there, you will have an idea on how to manage a long distance relationship.

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

The Important Thing In Relationships

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This is a poll to see what people consider to be the most important aspect in relationships.

As we can see, most people consider trust to be the main ingredient in any relationship. True, trusting your partner is very important. Especially when you are at a distance from them.

When in a long distance relationship, it is crucial that you have that strong foundation of trust. When you have that, everything else follows.

Don't know how to make things work out? Having difficulty trusting your partner? Get long distance relationship advice</>!

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Long Distance Relationships and the Things In Between

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It is highly impossible for everyone to know what a person in a long distance relationship feels like when apart from their loved one if they aren't or haven't been in the sane situation at all. Sometimes, even people with similar experiences cannot exactly say what that person is going through since no one is the same. We may get ideas of how they truly feel at one point i time but we can't fully grasp this idea. It is only when the person involved would relate every feeling he or she has in such a way that we get to have the same "feeling".

Coping seems so easy to do but it is not. People cope differently from others. Some indulge in heavy partying to make themselves happy while some may sulk every single day they are apart from their partners. The previous may sound much better than the latter but either way, both are suffering. Thus, people in distance relationships make themselves busy instead.

The picture above is a result of a long distance relationship advice that was put to good use. Using the feelings she has for her significant other, she created a beautiful song with meaningful lyrics. Although it has yet to be continued, it is excellent as it already is. I found this online and even got a video of the person singing this song. It was so sweet. I even had the chance to have an interview with the composer.

We can hear people say that those who are in long distance relationships seem so desperate and distressed when apart, and that it is ridiculous. But hey, it isn't their fault that they're in love with someone who lives away from them. Love comes during the most unexpected times. Do not rush into love. Learn to wait for it. When it comes, you will surely know. And when it is right, everything will feel right.

If you are ashamed to ask for help when coping with your long distance relationship, do not worry. You aren't the only person who has undergone that situation. More than 50% of the human population has, too. Learn to cope in a positive way as it is the best alternative to prevent severe depression.

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Long Distance Relationships and You

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Not all people can take being at a distance from the one they love. What about you? Are you a letter...

a) Yes, definitely! A distance is a distance. It's nothing compared to our love.
b) Yes, I'm willing to take the risk and see where it goes from there.
c) Hmm. Maybe, it depends. I'm just not sure yet.
d) No, thanks. I just don't do long distance relations.
e) Of course not! Please. Those long distance relationship advice don't seem to work. Been in one, and I so don't wanna go there again.

Addicted To You

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In every relationship that you have had, try recalling how excited you were to see your significant other each day. Did you ever get tired of hanging out every single time? How was your very first date as a couple compared to the remaining dates you had in the span of your relationship?

See, in short distance relationships, it cannot be avoided that sometimes you get tired of seeing each other. You take this benefit for granted while those in long distance relationships take what they can get.

If you can still remember your first date, it was so full of bliss. Now many may try to rekindle this moment. But in long distance relationships, they get that same feeling every time they get to see each other.

Keeping the relationship interesting is a very helpful piece of long distance relationship advice that couples could get. For those who are in short distance relationships, keeping the relationship interesting will also prove to be rather difficult. Some may get bored and may disregard their partners ultimately.

Staying interested is essential when it comes to relationships. So if you could, give your partner a reason to be interested in you without trying so hard. Long distance love may not be the easiest but it surely is going to be obe of the sweetest.

Friday, May 6, 2011

Love Despite The Distance

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It is amazing to see people last longer than people think they could. If you were in the same place as these people, wouldn't you be more pleased of yourself when you prove them wrong?

People in long distance relationships should not bother convincing other people to believe that their love will last and that they will be ending up married with their current partner. It would be tiring to convince people who have already decided not to believe you that long distance relationships really do work. You'll just be wasting your time and effort, maybe even your voice. You just might want to go on with your life and with your relationship. Do everything for it to work.

As part of long distance relationship advice that will be given, couples who are in such relationships should put to mind that their love has many challenges and obstacles ahead. There are going to be too many haters and quite a few supporters, but you have to listen to the voices of the few who will encourage you. Avoid the voices of the haters because they are only going to lead you astray. They hate maybe because they were afraid to take the risk and regret it, or they were in the same situation as you are but gave up and regret it. In any sense, they are people who regret.

When you are really in love, the distance in between is just going to be a number. It would not matter because what is important is the fact that you two are still together even when the two of you are apart. Yes, it is going to be really difficult. Most days are the greatest, but they can't all be great. When the nights are bad, they are pretty bad, too. However, the connection that the both of you have is unlike any other and nothing else will ever take its place.

Most of those who have been in long distance relationships would say that they know they truly love someone when both of you are going to be apart because this is when you will realize how much you care for the other, and how much you are willing to go through for them. Some people fall in love due to the other's physique, but in long distance relationships, you fall because of who the person really is.

If you plan to be in a long distance relationship, get quality long distance relationship advice. It is going to be perfectly helpful for you. Remember, distance is just a number. Distance is not going to last forever, but the two of you will.

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

A Long Distance Fairytale

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Not many people believe that long distance relationships last. There are hundreds of thousands of skeptics out of a probable million who will air out their disbelief in such relationships that will make a couple doubt their trust in each other. I was once one of them until my classmate ended up with her long time long distance boyfriend.

These two met on the online dating site called Cherry Blossom which my female classmate didn't want at first. She said she got annoyed by all of the old dudes who kept sending her messages until such time that some guy her age left a message. As the exchange of emails continued, she asked that he put up his own picture as he didn't have any. To her surprise, he was very good-looking.

From then on, they started having frequent conversations. Because of frequent contact, they developed feelings for each other and got into a relationship. As my classmates found out about the long distance relationship, no one wanted to believe it. Only a few gave long distance relationship advice. Some may give advices but they were really unnecessary.

As time passed, their chat sessions leveled up to constant text messaging ubtil such time that the guy came over to visit. We then knew that this guy was serious because who would want to spend so much money on a trip (United States - Philippines) that you didn't take seriously.

They hung out, spent most of their time together and enjoyed the company of the other. The guy had to go back to New York and they had to part ways. What no one else knew, they already had plans of getting the girl out to New York and get married. And they already are.

You see, if you just get to work on your relationship just like my friend and her husband (who was then her boyfriend) did, you will go a long way. Relationships need work, we all know that. All we need is to know how to make long distance relationships work.