It's So Hard Not Being There

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Some people end up entertaining negative thoughts about their partner whenever they are apart. Although this is supposedly a no-no to long distance relationships, there are still those people who make the mistake of looking for a second partner as some sort of substitute for the first. Though they claim to not take this seriously and call it a fling, it still is not a good thing.

In long distance relationships, trust is a major factor that should be deeply rooted in the core of both partners. If there is an absence of trust, expect the relationship to fall apart. When one of the partners will get a summer fling, this will break the trust of the other resulting to a break-up. Therefore it is a must that none of either partieswill give the other a reason to doubt their trust. A good long distance relationship advice would be to give your partner no reason to doubt you.

Make sure that you are there whenever you say you are going to be there. Avoid giving false hopes and reassurances because once you do so, they will no longer believe in you. If they do, it will take a lot of time before their trust in you will be fully regained. Just listen to the song that comes with this post and you will understand this better.

Saying Goodbye Is Just The Beginning

Most people are afraid to say goodbye to their partners because they think it may mean the end. On the contrary, saying goodbye is just the start. It is the start of a new challenge, a test of one's confidence in the other, the start of everything.

Getting into a long distance relationship never is an easy thing. Especially because it would require you to do the thing most couples fear the most - and that is seeing the other person leave. People who are filled with what ifs are those who are not prepared to get into a relationship like a long distance relationship. If you are one of these people, be kind to yourself and to the other person and do not jump into one for the sake of being in a relationship. What it will bring you is only hurt. Before you go into a long distance relationship, it is important that you know why you are getting into one and you have to know how you are going to go about the said relationship with your partner.

Long distance relationship advice would revolve around trusting each other as well as the understanding of long distance relationship per se. If someone who does not want to say frequent goodbyes to their partner will get into a relationship which entails distance, then be prepared for the worst. Couples who are in these kinds of relationships fully understand what is going to be asked of them, and that is hard work on both parts. Goodbyes are just the beginnings of a sweet and wonderful relationship. It may be hard, but it is soon going to be worth it.

In long distance relationships, saying goodbye is just temporary even if they may be frequent. Staying strong when the other leaves will help keep the relationship in perfect sync. As all relationships are founded on trust, it is strongly advised that both couples trust the other to stay loyal even after all the goodbyes. Leaving and being left hurts. It may not be totally at the same degree, yet it hurts nonetheless.

Going The Distance

It is so easy to fall for someone you are in constant contact with. But before you go falling in love with someone you just met online, it is probably a good idea to get to know what the person is really like.

To others, they say distance is just a number. And in some cases, it really is nothing more than that. But when it comes to long distance relationships, being apart and being in a relationship will mean more work from both parties as compared to short distance relationships.

Before committing yourself to a long distance relationship, you should weigh your pros and cons. Knowing these will help you decide whether or not you are going to make such a relationship work. If you have to, do not be afraid to seek long distance relationship advice from people who are in a long distance relationship or from those who tried being in one. Approaching the people who habe no experience in said distance relationsip will only give you negative feedback. Plus, they do not know anything about it so they probably have biases.

It is important in this long distance relationship that bith partners will be willing to work on the relationship itself. The saying "it takes two to tango" also applies to relationships. Love may be a one-way street and sometimes it may be better that way, but when we talk about relationships, that is not a good thing. If you are the only one who is doing all the work, it's not worth it at all.

When you know the advantages and disadvantages of being in a relationship that is going to be mostly from a distance and you still are both willing to take the risk, then go for it. Just keep in mind that the best thing for both of you to have will be a deeply rooted foundation on trust. A friendly piece of long distance relationship advice, be honest with one another.

If it also helps you and your partner, you may want to try watching the movie Going The Distance. It has been carefully shown in the movie the pros and cons of being apart from your partner. As this long distance relationship is more complicated than any other, expect a lot of bumps on the road. However, learn to keep your cool and don't swerve away from the road. Go the distance.

Dealing With Long Distance Relationships

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Dealing With Long Distance Relationships

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Love knows no boudaries, unless the two parties involved just let other things come in between the two of them and swallow their relationship whole.

Vanessa Hudgens has blamed her busy schedule for her split from longtime boyfriend Zac Efron, revealing the couple struggled to maintain a "long-distance relationship". The "High School Musical 3: Senior Year" co-stars' three-year romance came to an end in December 2010, but rumors of a reunion surfaced just weeks later when they were spotted together in a nightclub, and Hudgens also admitted they were "figuring things out".

Hudgens has now confirmed they are definitely not back together and explained the reasons for the break-up, insisting their acting roles kept them apart. She tells Shape magazine, "Long-distance relationships are hard no matter what. When you don't have face-to-face time, it's just different. Having an iPhone helped, but it wasn't the same."

But the singer-actress is adamant she will always have fond memories of her relationship with Efron, adding, "We grew up together. It was nice to have someone to share all of those experiences with. It was a good thing. The relationship kept me grounded, and because I was with someone who knew me so well, I didn't need to try to be someone I'm not."

Had both Vanessa Hudgens and Zac Efron known how to deal with long distance relationships and had they gotten long distance relationship advice from people who had some experience with these kinds of relationship, they probably wouldn't have separated.

If you love somebody, set them free. And if they really love you, they'll come back.

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Advantages and Disadvantages of Long Distance Relationships

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