I hate it when guys are being dramatic. It does not look right.
That was my yahoo messenger status message. I wasn't counting on any one of my friends on my friends list to give their reactions about it. You could just imagine how in awe I was when I checked in (after watching a movie)and I found all those reactions. There were reactions from mostly guys, probably because most of those who were logged in were guys, but girls also commented on it.
The first reaction I got was from my friend Deanne saying "Some guys are cute." I replied with a what-do-you-mean? She then explained that it was with regards to my status message. A little later, there were guys popping up. One said, "I agree. It's a good thing I'm not that way." Another one said, "Hey. I'm dramatic."
I was amused, mostly. I'm confused, though. From what I've read, guys say they don't like guys being dramatic, but some would also say they are. And to girls, it's the same confusion. For me, I think guys shouldn't be overly dramatic. It's weird.
I guess girls seem to have the "right" to be dramatic because girls have the need to have to express their feelings. Or else, they might just... explode. Guys, on the other hand, don't need to do that. They just have to, I don't know, go find some distraction of some sort and they won't mind the drama any longer.
Guys may think that girls who are drama queens are over reacting, but they're not. The downside to girls not being able to let their feelings out could probably end up to suicide, and we don't want that to happen. Likewise, guys have a bigger chance of a completing a suicide than girls, but because of their "man standards" (being macho and all), they don't show to the world that they're vulnerable.
I never thought that for once, I'd agree to the machismo stuff. But, I agree. We girls don't want our men to seem frail. And most of all, I don't think girls would want a guy who's much more of a "tear-jerkey".
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